Having good friends is really important to your happiness.

Having good friends is really important to your happiness.

There was time where I longed after friends who were not taking me seriously
I loved hanging around with them .. I naively took them as my close friends..
whatever I wanted to do, wherever I wanted to go, I would definitely ask them along
but then I realized they didn’t took me the same

The kiddy me tried not to mind
The thick face me refused to let go and continued to stick around
Thinking that they might feel the same one day
As expected, it didn’t turn out the way I thought
I didnt feel good at all. OF CZ!! who is going to feel good being neglected especially by someone you care
OH gosh!! soooo drama

I am really ashamed of myself
Thank god that I changed

Bcz.. as I grow up, I realised how drama and kiddy am I
They are obviously NOT WRONG
They are good people
They didn’t betray me
They didn’t harm me intentionally
They simply didn’t feel the way I felt

Perhaps I was really annoying being an over affection friend.
Perhaps they were the one who actually couldn’t take it anymore.
perhaps I did the same toward the others as well
and the worst is I might not realise it because I don’t care!! *laugh out loud*

As human, we use to think stuffs from our points, making ourselves the victims and the right one, but all these don’t change the fact.
Instead, I should stand up high, be strong to admit my mistakes and be good

I understand truly that be it couple or friends
It has to be mutual, else it makes no sense
Ya, is true that good friends bring happiness
but that good friend has to be the right ppl
Continue to linger on something or someone that not belongs to u bring nothing but harm to yourself

Thank god that I changed
I appreciate every friend
But I focus more on friends who can connect with me
I feel happier and no more drama~~


Still there is no happy ever after in real life
there is  time that you have to say goodbye to friends who used to be so close and so match with u
You just have to accept the fact that people come in and out from your life
Appreciate them, wish them all the best  and treasure the sweet memories we had are the only things I can do

Happy Friday ^^

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